I am so grateful that I found CiViL, and I can't wait to share my experience with others. Here's what I'm learning... My Feelings Matter: Before joining CiViL in high school, I used to hold everything in and pretend that nothing bothered me. But CiViL helped me understand myself and the way I react to things. CiViL taught me that my feelings matter and that it is okay to speak up when something is not right. CiViL is a Safe Group where I feel protected and encouraged, so I can speak freely. Communication Skills Matter: In the past, I've had a hard time expressing my thoughts. Now, CiViL has helped me get better at communicating with people. Before CiViL, I was scared of being judged or misunderstood. Through all the discussions and group activities, I learned how to share my voice with confidence. I realized that people actually listen when you speak from the heart, and that made me feel stronger and more connected to the people around me. Acts of Kindness Matter: I didn't always think about how someone else might be feeling, but CiViL opened my eyes to the fact that everybody carries their own struggles. CiViL helped me be more kind to others and to have real sympathy for what people go through. Now I find myself being more patient and gentle, because I know even small acts of kindness can make a huge difference in someone's day. "CiViL didn't just change the way I treat people; it changed the way I see them. And that's a BIG thing for me." |